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Decisions, Decisions

So the countdown has begun to the main event of the year....well in this household anyway.....less that three months & counting!  I think I've said before how I'm still a big kid at heart & absolutely LOVE birthdays & you can guarantee the night before any birthday let alone a special one there won't be much sleep on my part & at some stage it will see me lying wide awake waiting for hubby & son to stir from their sleep & singing happy birthday to myself.....I know TOTALLY sad but like I say I'm still a child at heart & love birthdays!  Not even the thought of turning the big four-0 can dampen my excitement in fact it's just making me more excited & giving me the excuse to celebrate my birthday even more!!!  After all life begins at forty & I certainly intend to ensure this is the case!

Now birthdays also mean pressies & I can honestly say that a hand drawn birthday card from our son, sometimes depicting me in Zara (why he would draw such a thing I do not know....but it has been known I kid you not!!) is more precious than any present but being a 'special' birthday I now face an important decision......do I ask for a 'special' pressie to be treasured for the rest of my lifetime, that I wouldn't normally dream of buying or do I invest any birthday money in some new additions for my wardrobe that will give me a few years of joy but inadvertently be discarded at some point?

So with a treasured possession in mind I've started the search for something I wouldn't dream of normally buying let alone spend a large amount on one such item but hey fortieths are a once in a lifetime experience...right?!  Well at least until the fiftieth!!!!

Now I have already started the 'research' into such a pressie....if of course I'm luckily enough to be gifted with some birthday money & through my 'research' stumbled across the designer Peter Som on Avenue32.  Peter who I hear you cry....well let me tell you Peter or 'Pete' to his friends ;-) is known for his signature bold prints with designs that are both feminine, quirky and classic & having dressed some of Hollywood's leading ladies well surely it's about time he dressed one of Worcestershire's gals too?!!!

Although I'm not known for my love of bold prints (well apart from leopard print!) I do have the odd bit of print in my wardrobe that I do love wearing with some classic items & what better to incorporate a bit of designer into my wardrobe than through a bit of print?!

Having looked at his pieces the item I'm totally loving & keep being drawn back to is this silk top.






I love all the colours that it incorporates, which would make it so versatile to wear plus the fact that both the style & the design is quite classic meaning it wouldn't date.  Not to mention the fact that being short sleeved it could be worn in summer & layered up in winter so would be one of those special pieces in my wardrobe that could be worn all year long......I'm loving it even more!  I'm even envisaging wearing it will wax coated skinnies, tuxedo blazer & some amazing heels or with a pencil leather skirt & a Chanel inspired boucle jacket.

So what do you think?  Have you had or are you approaching your fortieth of any other special birthday for that matter & wondering what to put on the all important birthday list?  Are you of the frame of mind that you'd like one special pressie that will last a lifetime or are you thinking of just investing in some new pieces for your wardrobe that may not last a lifetime but will give you much pleasure in the coming years?  I'd really love to hear your thoughts & suggestions about what I should do.

And while I contemplate this all important question, here's what I've been wearing these last few days, starting with a day in the office.


Outfit One




Scarf - Zara
White Shirt - Massimo Dutti
Bracelets - Banana Republic
Jacket - Zara
Boyfriend Jeans - Zara
Court Shoes - Zara


Outfit Two




Jumper - H&M
Scarf - H&M
Leather Cuffs - Massimo Dutti
Jeans - Massimo Dutti
Court Shoes - Next


Outfit Three




Tuxedo - Zara
Necklace - Handmade
Camisole - Zara
Bracelet - J Crew
Cigarette Trousers - Zara
Shoe Boots - Next


Outfit Four




Scarf - Zara
Sweatshirt - Zara
Boyfriend Jeans - Zara
Pumps - Boden


Of course me being me I'm sure to come up with many more ideas for birthday gifts in the coming three months but I'd love to hear your thoughts about this first option & what you're hoping for or indeed had on your special birthday.

Enjoy your Sunday & see you in a few days.

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16 comments

  1. Your last comment made me laugh so much, Jane - that's me! I've already said to hubby that I'd like a handbag for Christmas, no a coat, no money towards a new iPhone.... It'll go on and on until the time comes. My fortieth is just over a year away and I think I'll go for one special present to last a lifetime (already thinking a lovely bag...). We'll see! Lynne x

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    1. Some great ideas Lynne & love your idea of a lovely bag & it's important to get it right for such a special occasion....no doubt I'll keep thinking of things & changing my mind up to a couple of weeks before! x

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  2. I've been thinking about this long and hard, I spent 20-40 acquiring stuff, and now feel a burning desire to let most of it go to free up space as we are overflowing. I want my big 50 to be about experience, in my mind it, will just be a huge family party (no specific mentioning of age!)with all our friends and our kid's friends in a country house with a marquee, live music, fireworks and great food. The closest I will probably get is hiring the local pub, but you have to start with a grand plan!

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    1. Wow that sounds like it's going to be an amazing party & what a fabulous memory to always treasure. My hubby who turned forty earlier in the year wanted experiences as opposed to presents so we did lots of lovely things....I'm having trouble deciding how I want to spend my actual birthday too....too many decisions but I'm sure I'll get there in the end & as long as I'm sharing it with my loved ones I'll be very happy indeed x

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  3. Its gorgeous & it would look fabulous on you! I did my 40th wishlist a while ago on my blog! Hubby wasn't impressed that Hugh Jackman was one of the things I want! ;) I need a new battery for my Tag boring & practical I know & I want a Oushka Felix Handbag! He's had plenty of warning! Ax

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    1. Andrea you do make me laugh & you never know Hugh may have already have been booked lol!! xx

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  4. I would definitely go for an investment piece Jane as it will always have such lovely memories attached especially if you have something lovely planned, whether it be in the way of a party or a trip somewhere special!

    Can't wait to see what you plump for and here all about your birthday plans, Michelle x

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    1. Michelle I think you're right about going for an investment piece....all I've got to do now is decide!!! x

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  5. Just when I think I have enough scarves in my life, I read your blog and realise I need at least 3 more! ADORE that H&M one - I'm a big fan of burgundy. XX

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    1. It's a great scarf isn't Avril, although you must be spoilt for choice with all the lovely scarves in your shop x

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  6. How exciting. I think an investment piece is the way to go. the top is beautiful. Very you. It's my 40th in 3 weeks and I'm having a big party for a present. I'm like you in that I love my birthday and absolutely cannot wait! I'm looking forward to your next installment! xxx Love Liz xxx

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    1. Thanks Liz. I bet you can't wait for your birthday party....not long to go & I can't wait to see what you wear x

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  7. Love Peter Som! That is beautiful. I have the *big* birthday next year and family threatening a party, but I just want cash for bag or shoes!

    www.fashion-mommy.com

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    1. Emma I totally agree would rather spend the money on a lovely keepsake as opposed to a big party but am planning on having lots of little celebrations too! x

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  8. I am slightly predictable but I would go for a handbag or a Chanel jacket Jane xx I am sure your' choice will be impeccable.

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    1. Great ideas Helen....I'll add them to the wish list x

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